What are some traditional wedding vows or sites with some examples?

Jamie L asked:


I’m getting married in april and my grandfather, a notary, is officiating the wedding. he’s out of date on the wedding vows- he used to do religious. we want non-religious, maybe just a prayer and a short verse (ie love is patient, love is kind, or something along those lines). we just want traditional, nothing too flashy, and not a whole lot of prayers, and we definitely dont wont mushy- so no writing our own. please give us some ideas, i’m lost!