Comments on: Would you think it was sweet if your fiance cried while saying his wedding vows at your wedding?

By: Juliette

Juliette — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:31:17 +0000

My husband teared up while he was saying his vows. Yes, I did think it was sweet. But mostly I was trying not to become a blubbering mess myself, because his vows at that point were about him leaving for Iraq and how our love would get him through it. It meant the world to me. Not sissy at all, especially from an Army guy.

By: Blondee

Blondee — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 05:27:48 +0000

I think it’s sweet and I know for a fact that my hubby-to-be will cry when he says his. He even told me he would, but is just that sensitive about those things.

By: theMrs.

theMrs. — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 22:54:06 +0000

Yes, I think it would be touching for the guy to shed a tear or two, but if he started full on crying, that might be too much.

By: Kristen

Kristen — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 06:22:46 +0000

I would think it was touching. It would mean that the ceremony really moved him and that he truly appreciated it – and me!!

I think it just means he loves you a whole heck of a lot

By: MissKitty

MissKitty — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:49:54 +0000

Sad movies or certain news events yes; wedding vows, no. That would make me a little nervous frankly.

By: Melody K

Melody K — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 00:37:42 +0000

not really…not even a little bit!

By: Shimmer

Shimmer — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:05:57 +0000

No way! I totally don’t want my fiance to cry when saying vows at the wedding, I understand that some people may think its sweet & call it “tears of joy”, but Ive always associated crying with feelings that are negative (sad, scared, etc)…if he was crying during vows, i feel that it looks like he is scared of the commitment, like “oh crap oh crap oh crap” hahaha. I’d stop the service just to say “MAN UP!”

By: Bridal Muffin - 11/21/09

Bridal Muffin - 11/21/09 — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 19:28:12 +0000

I think it would be sweet. As long as he’s not a cry-baby or anything. My fiance never cries (well once when we almost broke up he got a bit teary-eyed) so if he cried I’d just think it was sweet.

I can’t decide if he will or not at our wedding. Part of me thinks he will because of being “in the moment”, and he’s a super romantic guy, and I just don’t think he’ll be able to hold it in. But the other half of me thinks, like all things, he can be a rock (in a good way) and tears aren’t really how he expresses things. So I won’t be surprised if he makes it through the whole day without a single blurry-eyed moment.

Me on the other hand, I am a crier! I will probably be crying all day. As soon as I see a family member cry (like my mom or something) I will be done. So when I put on my dress I will cry, when i see him at the end of the aisle, more tears, probably throughout the vows, thanking my family at the reception speech etc. We’ve actually decided against writing our own vows because I know I won’t be able to make it through something I’ve personally written for him without turning into a blubbery mess! And since I want people to actually understand the vows I am exchanging, we thought it was safest to go with standard vows. lol.

By: Lisa B

Lisa B — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 01:29:54 +0000

On the one hand, I think it’d be very touching and sweet, but on the other hand, if he starts crying, then I’d start crying, which would probably ruin my makeup, so I’d be a little annoyed, lol.

By: laura_ann321

laura_ann321 — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 02:43:12 +0000

Yea, I know I’m gonna be cryin’!!